Got yourself a little monkey who’s already managed to jump from the crib? If so, what I’m about to say next is very important: Crib jumping doesn’t necessarily mean you should transition to a bed. Say it with me: Crib jumping doesn’t necessarily mean you should transition to a bed.
“But... but?!” you say. “It’s not safe for my toddler to be jumping from a crib!” True, not without some great precautionary measures in place (I'll talk about these below). Know what else isn’t safe, though? A 20-month old with the ability to wander around the house by himself at night when he gets out of his “big kid” bed. So, what’s the happy-medium? How do we keep our children in cribs until they are really ready to move to a toddler bed, and also keep our little monkeys safe? Read on!
Tip # 1: Crib until Three
I suggest that children sleep in a crib until at least the age of three, and do not transition to a toddler bed/bigger bed before that time. The reason for this is related to your child’s level of comprehension at this age. While it’s certainly not always a breeze to “reason” and “negotiate” with a three-year-old who is constantly getting out of bed, it can be a piece of cake compared to attempts at rationalizing with a two-year-old, who does not have the same comprehension level and reasoning skills as an older child.
Further, three-years and older is simply a safer age for your child to be “free” at night if they do decide to get out of their bed, versus a two-year old potentially wandering around the house on their own. For these reasons, I recommend the crib until the age of three!
Tip # 2: Sleep bags
I also recommend that your child wear a sleep bag (also known as a “wearable blanket) until they are no longer in a crib. Sleep bags come in LOTS of sizes (some companies even make them in sizes up to 3-6 years), so there is no reason to forego the sleep sack while your child is sleeping in the crib.
Tip # 3: Create a safe and soft landing zone
Once again, as a first step, ensure your child is wearing a sleep bag if still sleeping in a crib. Among the many reasons I love sleep bags is the fact that they are a very big deterrent from your child even attempting to climb out of the crib. However, if your little one STILL manages to escape the crib, even in a sleep bag, we want to create a soft landing zone at even the first sign that she may be capable of climbing out of the crib. So, place a mattress on the floor by the crib and pile pillows at the ends on the floor to ensure a soft landing if she does manage to make the leap!
Tip # 4: Make the escape no-big-deal
If the crib-jump occurs – even after all your efforts to avoid it! - do not react by giving your child tons of attention about it; this will only encourage him to keep doing it. Instead, stay calm and neutral, and firmly tell him not to climb out again, and put him right back in the crib. Make the interaction boring and very straightforward, to help him understand that climbing out of the crib will not create different results in terms of what happens during sleeptime.
Tip # 5 – Bonus tip! Turn the crib around
If you have a crib that has a “back” that is higher than the “front” (which is often the case with cribs that are meant to be convertible to toddler beds, as the high back will later act as a headboard), you can try turning the crib around so the low side is against the wall and the high side is facing out. This creates more of a deterrent for your child who may be trying to climb out the front. (Note: you can also buy cribs that have solid ends – rather than slatted – which makes climbing much more difficult because there is less of a launching pad for little ones!).
There is most certainly an appropriate time for children to move to a big-kid bed, and in some instances, this MAY be as early as 2.5 years of age. However, in the vast majority of cases, children are most-ready to tackle the toddler-bed milestone after the age of three, and the tips above are good to keep in mind if your kiddo figures out the crib-catapult before that time!
Erin Junker is a Professional Infant & Toddler Sleep Consultant, and owner of The Happy Sleep Company (thehappysleepcompany.ca). She works closely with tired parents to help them help their little ones get the healthy, restful sleep they need. Follow her at www.facebook.com/thehappysleepcompany and on Twitter @TheHappySleepCo, and let’s get your family the healthy, happy sleep you deserve!